Ms. MO’s Mad Mad World

The girls got off to school with butterflies but no tears. O.G. is upset though. He’s been following me around all morning and is currently snoozing under my feet. Poor doggy, all his people leave him. But not his mama. This might mean a clearer head for updating websites. That would be great. Here’s to hoping… lol. Maybe O.G. will inspire some posts

I was not into it this morning, it’s kind of lazy. First day Bento:

Red Box:
Fruit Roll Up
Sandwich Kabob: bread, cheese, grape tomato, turkey
Forgot to add a mayo/mustard “dip”… blah

Pink Box:
Baby Gold Fish – Rice Crispy Treat – Strawberries – napkin

New bento supplies from my local Asian Market:

I have been feeling quite sorry for myself. It’s mostly coming from the direction of the girls and how hard it is to do it alone. As most of you know. So this morning I decided it is time for no more Pouty McPouty Pants. Today I am thinking of things that make me happy. Here are a few things

What little things make you smile?

My friend over at A Touch of ‘Tude is jotting down some deployment tips. One came to mind yesterday while I was sitting next to my daughter folding socks. I was actually folding a pair of Maverick’s socks he left in the hamper during R&R. R&R was about six weeks ago. I don’t like washing all of his clothes at once after he leaves. I realize that some do and just want to get it over with. I like to do it a little at a time because it feels like he’s some what home. Or rather once I run out of the things to wash he might be home and then I can yell at him for leaving more dirty clothes lol.

Another thing my friend said she does is put one of his shirts on a pillow or teddy bear to sleep with. She, like me, enjoys her soldiers bottled scent along with his own natural one. So no clean shirts for us. I am always afraid of sleeping with the shirt because I don’t want the scent to wear off or my own replaces his. So I keep Maverick’s old stinky shirt, lol, on the back of my bed. So when I need to I just hug it with my bear and put it back before I fall asleep. Just before he comes home I will wash the shirt and hang it back up.

It’s funny how we all have our own little deployment rituals. I would enjoy reading more and remembering all the little things I do that I don’t even pay attention to. Like my late night, just before drifting off to sleep thank you to god for keeping him safe and keeping the girls and I safe. It is so automatic I barely notice I’m doing it.

Maverick and I were talking about G2 (age 11). I have more trouble with her than I do my other two. Her mouth sometimes gets out of control, she is disrespectful and will not do what she’s told. This has been G2 since she’s been very little. With Maverick being gone all the time I don’t have a whole lot of patience for her shenanigans. I have two others who also need attention and discipline.

When Maverick tells me things like I need to work with her, she needs special attention, be fair etc. all I hear is that I’m not doing a good enough job and he knows better than I do. Then, and I don’t say it, I think “Well Listen Here Buddy! Maybe if you weren’t gone all the time you could show me how easy it is and deal with it your damned self! Maybe I’m doing the best I can with what situation we’re in how about backing me up! Next time she pushes your buttons I will remind you to “be fair and give her special attention.”"

So there we have it. He wants to still be involved in parenting from thousands of miles away and I want to tell him to take his computer parenting and shove it… tee hee.

The fun times of a family going through deployment. We start by putting them (our spouses) on a pedestal, forgetting how irritating they can be, then R&R happens right when we were getting a routine and feeling somewhat ok, they leave again we break down again and right when our skin thickens back up they are home and we get a honeymoon period, reality sets in and all of a sudden the messes you wish you had to clean up because it would mean he was home irritates the crap out of you and then they come tumbling off the pedestal lookin’ all broken. I would like to hear their version. Maybe, not right now though, I’m not very receptive to it.

Things in the news I found needs attention:

Marine Leader: Need More Afghan Soldiers in Fight Against Taliban

Washington Times EDITORIAL: Rewriting economic history – The stimulus has made things worse:

NYC Muslims Push To Add Holidays To School Year

On to Ms. MO news . I take my girls to one of the pools on post. Last week I saw three guys come in, go to the snackbar and walk back with a beer. I kid you not. I was like :O Brilliant! I’m sure they have a limit on how many they will sell you. You know how the military regulates everything. I just like when they finally let adults act like adults. Not that I’m going to go order one, only if they had a margarita machine, then honey, I’m all over it. One frosty margarita under a shade tree, ohhh yeah! Anyway, just thought it was an interesting tidbit.

Maverick is about half done with the deployment. For this half he has internet in his room thanks to his roomate and of course Maverick no longer needing to work seventeen hour days. He actually has time to be online for a little bit before he goes to bed now. I don’t know if this is 100% good or not. The reason being is because I don’t know if R&R threw me off, seeing him on webcam is throwing me off and making me miss him more or it’s a nice fun emotional combination. I have a feeling it’s the latter. Either way it’s no fun.

One major thing it’s affecting is my riding. Before Maverick came home I was doing quite well. When he was home I was loping around and having a grand ol’ time. Now, I feel like I have no control, I’m nervous, frustrated and *sigh – ack!* weepy. I still ride, I do what needs to be done but it’s thrown off my groove. I need to get my groove back. Blah. My daughter, G1, has completely gone the opposite way and gained confidence. Ohhh to be 13 again.

A funny little thing, last night we were playing SingStar Country and I wanted to sing Blake Shelton’s “Home”. Well 2nd Daughter G has voiced a few times, while listening in the car, she didn’t like that song. However I like the song and am a fan of Blake Sheltons so that’s what I chose. I put it on and she says “Mommy I don’t like this song. I don’t want to hear some civilian whining about wanting to go home”. Oh my little Army Brat, I love her!

This morning I’m watching “Band of Brothers”. My usual “Days of Our Lives” isn’t on so that’s it for now. I need to get dressed and mail out this carepackage for my honey. Lots of coffee, creamer, donut sticks, to go coffee cups w/ lids and other various items. Maverick’s birthday is in a couple of weeks. I want to send him a fun b-day package. I need to look up ideas. Last year we had our friends over to BBQ, the girls and I got him an Ipod with a docking station. I would send him an Itunes card but the internet sucks over there and he really doesn’t have much access to a computer that can go on Itunes anyway.

I’m feeling really down today and I don’t even know if I have any readers any more, I have lost my blogging muse. I have actually lost all of my creative muses. All I can think of is the day Maverick comes home and is laying next to me in our bed. Somedays it’s hard to do the simple things. For a change of mood I leave you with Desdemona…

I’ve been watching “Major Dad” on Hulu everynight for the past four days. I watched it when it was first on but I was younger, not married to a fine soldier or realizing just how true a lot of the silliness on the show is. I think “The Major” is a tad over the top but I see how a 42 year old single Major in the Marie Corps might be a little too Hoorah. I have met my share of married Army guys that are too Hooah, so why not. I think it is kind of too much that his wife and the girls call him Major and refer to him as “The Major”. I have heard a lot of military make their children say Sir. Is that mainly a military thing? I don’t know I’ve been around it for twelve years and don’t have much to compare it too.

So two night ago the smallest G and I were layin’ up in my bed watching it together and it was the episode where The Major goes off to Central America on a combat mission. Little G and I didn’t say much while watching that episode until it continued and we watched the next episode. The girls were talking about how much they hate it, how worried Polly was etc. Then they finally said how long he was gone, ten days. Little G snorted and said “Ten Days! That’s It!” and looked me like pffft whatever.

I have to laugh at the show though because one day that will be my house. Three little girls, a wife that doesn’t exactly see his point of view or the Army’s, and one day he will be a Major. A Major pain… ha ha, bad joke. He’s not a pain, he’s my honey. I miss him.

The next day she told her sisters about it. Big Daughter G said “Ten days, we get excited when daddy will be home in two weeks! It probably took him four days to get there.” I shared the story with Maverick and he said ” I want to come home on the next episode. That’s a vacation, not a deployment.” I always wanted to live a prime time sitcom life. Speaking of my non-sitcom life, I have cleaning to do before I take off to Hobby Lobby. I hope ya’ll have a fun productive day. I’ll be sweating out at the barn tonight.

R&R was wonderful! It didn’t go too fast, of course it could have gone slower but overall it was perfect. We didn’t do all that much. We hung out at home, spent two nights at Lake Travis, rode horses together, ate out, saw “Land of the Lost” and reconnected. The reconnecting was the best part. Talking about what is important to us, reevaluating our goals and dreams. Maverick and I are in a great place right now. Deployments physically separate families however if you have a strong foundation nothing can come between you. That’s not to say that it wont be hard, only that it will not destroy you. I learned that from the last deployment, our first. It was such a hard time for me.

In horse news Big Daughter G had two playdays this past weekend. The first I have no idea how she did, it was done kind of odd, no age groups, the exhibitions were done after the main run which does not make sense. Exhibitions are done so you can fix mistakes you might have done, a signal given to the horse wrong, tack that might be feeling funny, why bother doing it after the fact? That doesn’t help anybody. It was frustrating, I wasn’t happy with the entire thing. It was good practice for her though. They had different patterns to run, so we’ll keep going just for practice alone. The greatest thing was Maverick got to see her run before he left the next morning.

Her Saturday playday was so much better. I really like the way Temple Longhorn Riding Club does things. They keep the grass mowed, big deal to keep bugs from attacking you. They have a snackbar, exhibitions are done before the main ride and they run by age group. Big “D.G.” placed second in barrels and straight away. She got a no time on poles due to her leaning and Tasha going around the poles. Tasha did what she was told though . Overall Big “D.G.” did very well and we’re so proud of her.

NKorea warns of nuclear war amid rising tensions – Yahoo! News

That’s kinda scary. Like lots scary. However I am not building a bomb shelter as of yet. Though it sounds kinda cool to say I have one. Bomb Shelter/Fun room… mmmhmmm.

I had to go to Milblogging.com : The World’s Largest Index of Military Blogs (Milblogs) to get information on #MilitaryMon which thankfully explained what a Hashtag was on Twitter, along with what #MilitaryMon was. However I don’t think putting #MilitaryMon and all of our usual disgruntled thoughts would be productive… :p. My very educated guess would be that it is more supportive and bringing things to the attention of readers, or civilians who still have very very strange ideas about our military and our military way of life. So type in the hashtag on Twitter and you might be surprised who is a huge military supporter. It’s nice to know people care, or rather still care. Check out the “Today” show on NBC in the mornings, they are really rallying support. Next week it will probably be something else, but hell, we will take what we can.

However here at Ms. MO’s Mad Mad World, I will put my disgruntled thoughts out there, ’cause I can, I have earned it. My main disgruntled thought is still R&R. We are now three weeks behind our scheduled first date. We got a second date only to have three flights canceled. Two due to weather and one just ’cause they can. Everytime Maverick calls it is never good news about when he will be here. Second Daughter “G” has a dance recital this Friday with her first solo. She is the only girl with a solo, it’s a big deal. He already missed Big Daughter “G”’s first playday, and yes with a deployment, these things happen. But let’s not miss out on everything, mmmmmkay.

I am still looking forward to everything else. Mostly of Maverick learning to ride. I have never seen him on a horse and I think it will be seriously yummy. I also can’t wait to take him to some new places to eat, go dancing, fishing, ride around in the Jeep with the top down. Oh which I am going to learn to drive it in exchange for him agreeing to learn to ride a horse. I can teach him, he can teach me . *sigh* I just want my honey home.