I have stopped visiting TrueMilitaryWivesConfessions.com. It’s the worst site ever and in no way is for True Army Wives. It’s full of simple minded idiots, I cannot believe how much time I have wasted on that site. I don’t confess, I have left simple advise and was done with it. So it’s been nearly two weeks since I visited the site and honestly my life hasn’t been better or worse, no impact on my life what so ever.

What I was originally going to start talking about was a conversation I had with my friend “B”. I was telling her how at age 19 Maverick and I moved to our first duty station, Fort Story, VA. I thought anybody 25 and older knew everything and had it all figured out. Then I got to know them and realized they had nothing figured out and at 19 I was a tad more together than they. Now here I sit at around their age (a lady never tells) and I see new wives all the time and some actually think I have it all figured out. Well I don’t. And any other “seasoned wife” reading me, you know damned well you don’t either. We may not be all wide-eyed and wet behind the years as when we first started our journey but let’s not kid ourselves, we’re still stumbling along the ins and outs of military life.

As I said I was going to start with that and started thinking about all the so called “advise” left at the above mentioned site. It’s full of women who think they have it all figured out and live a righteous life. Well it’s all B.S. and I seriously believe we all know it and that’s why some of us come off as hard nosed bitter hags ’cause we’re still flailing our arms around trying to keep our balance ourselves.

Go have a nice cup of tea and a cake. For me I think I need a drink.